Ecstatic Male
by Niko Tantra
Erotic Coach
Swiping..Scrolling...hookup.Still not satisfied.
This is your invitation to slow down, feel more, and connect in a whole new way.
What men are saying
“It was electrifying. Parts of my body were tingling. Niko created this sacred atmosphere and slowly built the energy until I just... surrendered. Highly recommendable.”
“I met Niko today and it was a unique experience. Before, I was stressed—caught in daily routine. He helped me find peace through pleasure and well-being. He is incredibly attentive, caring and—yes—breathtakingly handsome.”
“I had no experience in Tantra and came in skeptical. But Niko made it feel like I was with a good old friend—someone who deeply cared and let me fully relax. An insanely great experience.”
🔥 Awaken the Erotic Self
The Signature Erotic Archetype Work of Niko Tantra
This is the heart of my work.A path I’ve created to help men reconnect with their erotic truth—fully, unapologetically, and in the body.I call it Erotic Archetype Work.It’s a powerful, original approach that guides you through the hidden landscapes of your erotic self—not just the polished, desirable parts, but the wild, the sacred, the untamed, the unseen.Most men only express one or two sides of themselves in sex or intimacy.
But deep inside live many more: the Innocent, the Wild Man, the Sacred Lover, the Slut, the Shadow Dancer, the Sovereign.Through breath, touch, sound, and ritual, I guide you to feel these very real parts of you in your body—and integrate them into your life.This isn’t performance.
This is transformation.💎 What My Clients Experience:• A total reset.• Calm, focus, and clarity in sex, relationships, and everyday life.• The ability to become multi-orgasmic and deeply present.• Confidence to choose connection from sovereignty—not scarcity.• Shame dissolved. Pleasure reclaimed. Energy reignited.• Finally calling in a partner from wholeness.Sometimes this work looks like a teaser workshop.Sometimes it’s a full weekend initiation.Sometimes it’s a private 1:1 journey.But always—it’s about coming back to the most powerful version of you.This is your invitation to feel more, connect deeper, and awaken the erotic self you were born to be.👉🏽Join the list to hear about upcoming offerings ⬇️
🔥 Why Tantra?
Ok, here I will give you my very raw and unfiltered idea of this practice and why I find it useful.I personally love gay community. I love what we have created. I love that our relationships are different—open or polyamorous. I think, compared to our straight counterparts, we are incredibly open in that sense.We have overcome a lot of BS and come out strong. We have also made leaps and bounds in the transmission of HIV and STDs by using modern medicine.But what I do still see is a kind of burnt-out gay man—getting lots of sex, which feels good, but often little connection beyond that, and sort of stuck in this endless-app-searching-for-sex-cycle.My goal is really for us to wake up as a community and drop from our heads more into our hearts and bodies—and maybe even consider our c*cks as an extension of our hearts.So we can develop full and juicy relationships, and really see the full person in front of us—even if just for a hookup.---Why Tantra
It is my experience that neo-Tantra wakes us up to a deeply personal experience with pleasure, self-expression, and connection.It gives us the opportunity to be multi-orgasmic—a phenomenon many men don't know is possible for them.It has the potential to heal religious wounds that so many gay men carry around.Other benefits of Tantra may include:- Becoming more emotionally and physically present
- Letting go of habits around performance, pressure, or overthinking
- Better erections, controlled orgasm, better sex.
- Rewiring old patterns related to shame, sex, or emotional detachment
- Experiencing deeper connection, even in casual encounters
- Regulating your nervous system through touch, breath, and awareness
- Cultivating a healthier, more empowered relationship to pleasure
- Using sex and intimacy as tools for healing, growth, and energy
- Making your erotic life feel more satisfying, real, and whole
✨Niko Tantra
Educator, facilitator, and guide in erotic embodiment and conscious sexuality for men. My work is rooted in a lifelong desire for freedom, connection, and the ecstasy of simply being alive in this body.I've trained across Europe and the US—in Germany, Switzerland, England, and the Netherlands—where I immersed myself in Tantra, conscious sexuality, life coaching, and spiritual development. That European openness to the body, to nudity, to intimacy and social liberation—it gave me a whole new way of seeing sexuality and life! It helped me unlearn the shame I carried from growing up in a religious, tightly controlled American culture.Born and raised on the West Coast of the U.S., I know what it’s like to feel the weight of overzealous dogma, and the ache of wanting something more real, more embodied, more free. My journey has led me through certified Tantra trainings, intuitive and psychic development courses, energy work, radical honesty, and conscious leadership. I’ve danced at festivals, dropped into deep workshops, and devoted myself to a path of transformation.At heart, I am an educator. I love the craft of guiding people—gently, boldly—into more truth, more depth, more power. What I cherish most about this work is that it brings us back to the ground of ourselves. It helps us regulate emotion, reclaim pleasure, and reconnect to something holy and electric inside us.There’s a quote I hold close: “If you were fully awake to the essence of you, you could stand next to a eucalyptus tree and be turned on.” That’s the kind of presence I want to help you discover—not performative or exaggerated, but deeply attuned, wildly alive, and fully human.I believe in nakedness. In brotherhood. In creating spaces where men can explore their edges, soften their armor, and rise in their own ecstatic truth. I’m building that kind of space in Chicago and beyond.I speak three languages (and counting), and I love how language opens us to culture, nuance, and new ways of being. I love being around people who want to grow, who want to feel more, who want to live fully and freely.This path isn’t just about better sex. It’s about better life. A life you can truly feel—and savor.
📜 Training & Certifications
Diploma in Tantric Studies 2022-2025
Tantra4GayMen – Residential Program (UK & US)
↳Awarded in 2025
3 year intensive tantra training program in erotic embodiment, sacred intimacy, and gay-centered Tantra.
____________________________________Conscious Leadership Coach Certification
Completed April 30, 2020
Two-year program in radical honesty, emotional presence, and embodied leadership.____________________________________Reiki Master Certification
Usui Shiki Ryoho & Tibetan Lineage
Gail Thackeray Organization – Certified 2016
Attunement-based energy healing and subtle body work.
____________________________________Master of Education (M.Ed.)
Awarded 2015
Graduate-level training in pedagogy, communication, and transformative learning.
____________________________________Psychic Intuitive Development Certification
Lady of Light Organization – Chicago
Completed 2013
Training in intuitive awareness, energetic perception, and subtle field navigation.